Best Spirituality Book for Depression: “Neale Donald Walsch on Relationships” by Neale Donald Walsch


Best Spirituality Book for Depression: Neale Donald Walsch on Relationships by Neale Donald Walsch

Okay, so it’s not Conversations With God. But that doesn’t mean it’s not worth reading. Besides, it’s short and chatty. I like that.

Neale Donald Walsch on Relationships is the transcript of a seminar speech given by the author. It retains the conversational style of the speech.

In the past, Walsch says, he had no idea what relationships were all about. He thought that the purpose of having a partnership was to get something, rather than to give something. He tried to arrange his relationships as a kind of barter: “If you give me this, I’ll give you that.”

The result: he often felt he had to change himself for his partners (for example, soften his loud, embarrassing laugh).

Much later Walsch learned that the real reason for relationships is to help us know who we are, since we can only see in ourselves what we see in others. “Therefore, I cannot find the divinity within me until I seek, discover, and recognize . . . the divinity in you.”

They are also our opportunity to give to others, to love them and see the good in them.

In a pure, awakened relationship, both partners allow each other to do and be whatever they desire—no matter what it is—without anger or punishment. Instead, if the partner wants to do something they’re not okay with, they respond by taking the actions they feel are right for them in light of the other’s actions.

A great example of this: If Walsch’s wife decided to smoke in the house, he’d lovingly, gracefully tell her he will no longer choose to live in the same house. There is no power struggle here, no arguing or blaming; just a clear-headed choice of response.

Our modern institution of marriage does the exact opposite of this. “It “possesses rather than releases,” and “limits, rather than expands.” It’s our way of trying to trap each other into staying the same, even though people are meant to change constantly.

A good partner is:

  • Someone you can be your authentic self with, and
  • Someone who accepts you truly. Some of our so-called faults are actually our best qualities—with the volume turned up a bit too high. We can adjust the volume as needed, without changing who we are.

Other thoughts of note:

  • “Love never says no. You know how I know that? Because God never says no.”
  • Someone asks Walsch how to get out of a power struggle in their relationship. “Well, stop it,” Walsch says. “How do I do that without adapting to conditions that really don’t work for me?” they ask. “Simply stop making an issue over the fact that you refuse to adapt. Just don’t adapt.” Don’t try to make the other person wrong. Just make your own choice in response to theirs.
  • Someone asks why our hearts have to be broken for us to feel more love, and Walsch says that’s just a “cultural myth,” that even when we break up with someone, we can do so in peace, knowing both people have leashed what they wished to learn.
  • Walsch also advises people to be flexible about the “package” a partner shows up in. Your mind may have one plan and your soul, another.

Can this book help me overcome depression?

Kind of? A little, maybe.

The books on my Best Recommended Channeled Books for Depression list that are found in the first section, also titled Best Channeled Books for Depression, are those that I have read and that I can personally vouch for. The other books on this list, under the Other Recommended Channeled Books for Depression heading, are those that I haven’t read yet but that have achieved some degree of recognition and appreciation, or I have read and liked but don’t necessarily help with depression. (In other words, they’re the books that don’t suck.)

This is one of those books.

I include these along with my personal favorites for depression in order to offer a comprehensive list of the channeled book for the “spiritual travelers” out there—people who, like me, are always on the lookout for their next inspiring spiritual read.

Does it address depression specifically? What does it say that can help?

No, it doesn’t. But it talks about law of attraction/creation/manifestation principles, which can be very empowering.

To what degree do you think it can help me overcome depression?

Depression effectiveness rating: 2 on a scale of 1-10

Where can I find it?

Neale Donald Walsch on Wikipedia

Official website of Neale Donald Walsch

Neale Donald Walsch on Relationships on Amazon


More mystical reading choices:

Top 20 Spiritual Memoirs

Top 150 Meditation Books

Top 20 Near Death Experience Books

Top 100 Channelled Books

Top 1000+ Law of Attraction Books

Top 25 Scientific Spiritual Books

Top 20 Spiritual Self-Help Books

Top 15 Blogs for Mystics

My 40 Favorite Books for Mystics

150 Law of Attraction Success Stories


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