Contributor: Mollie Player, www.mollieplayer.com.
Normally, I’m a pretty grateful person. I make an effort to thank God every day for all I have, and I have done so for many years now. I believe that gratitude is, in fact, one of the “secrets” to my success in overcoming depression, finding a partner and much more. However, there’s something in life that I have been guilty of not appreciating enough on a regular basis, namely: friendship.
“One of the things I am the very worst at in all of life, besides all of the things I haven’t tried, of course—and I’d even be better at some of those—is one of the most important, and it is this: making friends.” That is what I wrote in my book, Sometimes Very: How I Overcame Depression Without Experts or Medicine, on the subject.
And its true. And so, over the past year or so, I’ve been saying affirmations for friendship, and last December, it finally began to happen.
I began to make new friends, and not just a few–a lot.
I joined a couple of groups on meetup.com and was shocked to discover how many amazing, good, kind, intelligent people are out there.
And they even call you back.
In case I forgot to say it already: Thank you, God, for these new people in my life.
Thank you so, so much.
It’s spirituality for the rest of us
Eckhart Tolle is awesome. So are Byron Katie and all those Buddhist monks we hear about. Why, then, doesn’t their advice immediately solve all our most pressing spiritual problems?
Why are their results so difficult to replicate?
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