Life Hack for Getting Suddenly Awesome: Feel Things Deeply


“I have always been regretting that I was not as wise as the day I was born.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

I love this quote. In it, what is most notable is the word “wise.” Emerson doesn’t say “as happy” or “as carefree” or “as intuitive.” He says “as wise.”

Why? What does a newborn baby have to teach us?

Babies feel. That’s what they do.

Adult humans think.

I am a fan of thinking, and I don’t necessarily agree with all of the possible implications of Emerson’s words here.

But sometimes, it is important to just feel, deeply, rather than thinking so much. To appreciate things just as they are. To be “present,” as some like to say. To be living in the world rather than in the future.

And it is much harder than it sounds.

If you can do it, you may just be a saint.


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“I don’t know what to say other than it is the most beautiful book that I have ever read.” – Ashley

“Really, I am rather speechless.” – Sarah

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“Player has given a beautiful gift to her readers. I was very touched.” – Celia

“Player’s chatty style evokes a realism and empathy for the story. One is able to feel her pain.” – Anonymous 

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More Stuff to Read:

Some Spiritual Practices Actually Work. It’s Amazing.

There are hundreds of spiritual techniques for overcoming depression and increasing inner peace. Only one blog talks about whether or not they work. With ratings. (Take that, God.)

I Suspect Inner Peace Is Just a Myth. Here Are Interviews With People Who Disagree.

Some people are such show-offs. But that doesn’t mean they’re not worth listening to.

There’s a Book for That, Too

It’s a great time to get suddenly awesome. So many teachers. So many books.

I’m a Partner, a Mom, a Friend, a Mom, a Sister, a Daughter, a Businessperson and a Mom. Here’s What Helps.




  1. Your posts are a real blessing to me. You always seem to say something that I need to hear! You are wise beyond your years.

    Most cordially, Celia


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